Many of your lives are changing in ways you did not anticipate a few months ago. That shift brought some fears to the forefront.
For earth eons, a change was programmed to be fearful. So it is you ponder your decisions with trepidation only to discover that your new life, direction, or relationship is more comfortable than you anticipated.
You are discovering change is not necessarily frightening or a step back, if you will. For the change, you are creating is your new comfort zone.
In 3D, you most often built foundations on shaky ground. Of course, such was a given in 3D for you wished to experience fear in all its ramifications. So you built what you thought was a stable future only to have it shift in ways that created fear. Such has been and is true for all of 3D.
Change for you now is creating a stable foundation upon which you can build your new life.
You will not necessarily know immediately that such is true, for you will ponder your decision wondering what you did wrong, instead of glorying in what you did right. So it is you are slowly – in our thoughts, but rapidly in yours – accepting that fear is over. You are realizing you can adapt your comfort zone any way you wish when you wish. For your comfort zone is easily malleable as you evolve and grow.
In 3D, your decisions most often had grave or long-term results that were not easily shifted even if your outer circumstances changed quickly. So it was that you dreaded change for you could see the fear dominoes falling one by one even if that change seemed to be for the better.
You most often felt as if you wanted to be in two places at the same time – your former life and your new life leaving a somewhat bitter taste of sadness within you.
Of course, you counter that winning or gathering millions of dollars would not feel so and we beg to differ. For in 3D that “lucky” person needed to decide what part of life he or she would leave behind to fit within the social dictates for their higher or lower socioeconomic status. And once they began spending those millions, discovering that they likely did not fit within their old social strata nor their new one. The same would be true for those who lost financial resources. Either direction of financial gain or loss created a personal world of social isolation. As if the world were passing them by because they were not quite right in either world.
The same was true for disease, behaviors, and so many other indicators that as a result, you were not quite who you used to be so those you depended on for social interaction or approval were no longer in your circle.
That coupled with trying to determine how best to live your life despite a major shift and likely, social isolation, created an ongoing fear multiplied tenfold with each earth life. Creating the fear of change you are now exploring as you slowly realize that change means stability instead of crumbling structures and relationships.
You likely contend that such is not possible for change leaves part of you behind, that you always lose something with any change. Ah, new you is learning that instead of leaving something or someone behind, you are adding to your structure, your stability.
Those who do not relish your shift will not be of interest to you, unlike the pain of 3D loss. For you are discovering they were never truly part of your being, merely social connections which seemed important in 3D but are no longer.
Social connections were your 3D key elements of success. If you were poor, your friends were in similar circumstances either emotionally or physically. And if you were wealthy, the same would be true.
Now as you build structures from your heart, there is no need to find common financial or social expectations. For those who touch your heart will not be those who want you to be like them. Instead, they will want you to be a beacon of light as is true for them.
Social graces, objects, neighborhoods, friends, etc. are now from the heart, not from social shoulds. So it is you are becoming a mature Universal being.
Do you remember when you wanted to be part of your high school “in” crowd? And how devastated you were if you were not invited to the right parties or events? But once you found your way as a 3D adult, those “in” crowd needs became silly, sad, or nostalgic depending how you matured.
So it is now. It does not matter if you are wearing the right clothes, have the “coolest” car, or invite the right people to your parties. It only matters that you feel a heart attachment and you are comfortable – with few or no social shoulds and have tos.
You no longer need to “Keep up with the Joneses” or feel insecure about your social or financial standing. For your beacon of light will draw those who have a similar beacon with a similar comfortable life.
Those who continue to strive will not be comfortable in this new world. For they are hounded by shoulds and have tos.
Those you find attractive and attracted to you are creating comfort zones for themselves and will they care very little about what others think or feel about their lives.
You are becoming a mature Universal adult as you create a life right for you and no one else. So be it. Amen.
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