Grab Your Emotional Star Power

Dear Ones,

Even though you portray that which you think you should in the role of god/goddess/Lightworker/star being – you do not feel that role within you. You have tested your resolve. You have created your perfect world in your mind. Yet, you feel you are a follower – despite all messages that you are a leader.

And as you throw off the new earth titles many bestow on you, you feel less and less worthy of anything other than your 3D life. You know others are interacting with something outside their 3D beings. But they are the “golden” ones – the exception to the rule. The rest of you are somewhere in the middle of a Bell Curve of mediocrity.

How is it possible you are a god or goddess and do not have money to pay the rent?

You merely feel a continuation of your 3D life with a few new earth sparkles of joy here and there. You wait for the latest channel or workshop to get that joy upper only to lose that sensation the minute you arrive at work or your child breaks something special to you. Joy is fleeting. 3D is your reality.

We beg to differYou are shifting. One of the greatest indicators of your shift is your disillusionment with new earth.You believe enough to strive for something even though it seems to elude you.

You are all Lightworkers. But you have heard that so many times that it means little to you as you count your pennies at the grocery store. Please know that your shift into Lightworker knowingness is happening in the next few days.

It will start with a few renegade emotions. An “I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore” moment(s) that will present itself in so many ways from, “No,” to “That’s your responsibility,” to “I’m more valuable than that.”

Those thoughts and feelings will squeeze out of your pores in ways you cannot yet conceive of. We said that you would feel different emotions this holiday season – as if you are outside looking in. The next few days will produce another emotional element that will move you beyond feelings of new earth inadequacies.

Like the first day of a job when you are certain you cannot perform your assigned task and never will – only to realize a few months later that you are completely at ease with tasks that had you in a tailspin your first day.

You have had months and years of your first day new earth emotions. The emotions you explore the next few days are about knowing what you are capable of.

Perhaps you take care of someone emotionally to the extent that you ignore your needs – whether 3D or new earth. You might wake up and say, “You’re capable of taking care of yourself.”

Or you might allow yourself to know your capabilities in both your 3D world and new earth. For you must feel confident in your 3D world before you discover your true new earth being.

If you feel ‘less than’ in your 3D world, even though you explore other dimensions, you will maintain that inadequacy in your new earth life. Much as someone abused at six years of age needs to review those feelings so powerlessness does not dominate his 3D world. Feelings of inadequacy – in whatever dimension – reduce your new earth power.

Perhaps you are throwing up your hands in disgust for most Lightworkers have experienced 3D lives – especially this lifetime – that are horrendous in the remembrance. Things you almost do not dare tell others for who would believe you experienced that and now hope for new earth joy.

Please do not panic. You have cleared almost all those memories. It is just that in the next few days you will display related emotions you did not realize were deep within you. Such is part of this year’s holiday shift – removing the shoulds of society AND knowing the reality of your being.

Your memories of being less than have prevented you from knowing your true being. A bit like Marilyn Monroe, the Hollywood movie star, who never accepted her stardom because of her unresolved childhood pain.

The energies of the next few days give you the freedom to dissolve all that keeps you in 3D even though you have moved beyond 3D in terms of your Lightworker role.

Allow those energies to do their work. Allow unusual or frightening night dreams. Allow yourself to explore relationships knowing that everyone is powerful enough to move in directions correct for them – most specifically, you. Cut the ties of those dependent on you. Move forward as a bright star, instead of the heavy dust you have tried to be.

The next few days, you will feel emotions you did not know were part of you. And you will relay those feelings to others as you clear your emotional slate. Care taking and victimization will be the first to go. Allow yourself to be in the next few days and you will sparkle as does a star.

Now you are worried you will offend or lose someone dear to you. If that someone or something is part of your feeling less than a shining star, it is time to let go – emotionally, even physically if that is appropriate.

Does that mean you will leave your job, spouse or community? Perhaps. But this is an emotional shift, so it is more likely you will speak your truth – and if those you address do not wish to honor that truth, your relationship will change.

You will begin acting like a star even in your 3D world. For you will know deep within you that you have finally kissed the Prince, you, and your new role is beckoning – that of a new earth star. So be it. Amen.


godling 11th December 2013 11:15 am

Wow, every single sentence resonates within my heart. I feel uplifted and empowered from your message,Thank you :smitten:

queens4freedom 11th December 2013 11:25 am

thanks for the heads up! WONDERFUL BLESSINGS TO ALL!!!

KT 11th December 2013 12:20 pm

Dear Brenda,
Thank you so much for this message I read it today after not being on Spirit Library as regularly as I used to because I am very very disillusioned with the whole spiritual experiment that we have agreed to take part in I have seen other people in my circle who don't meditate and are very cynical of any new age stuff fly past me with their achievements and I still constantly look within to see where I am blocking myself this has been the case for at least five years, where I have been stuck unable to move past some unknown restriction/blockage, this channel really really spoke to me today, I had already decided to check out and had my plan all ready I am writing this with tears streaming down my face because I believe you and what you have said here and I do believe this was sent for me....... So Thank you...Thank you....Thank you....

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 2:10 pm

Hi Godling,
Thank you. That's what I love about channeling and sharing. We all better understand the what and whys of this amazing transition. And that we're all in this together.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 2:12 pm

Hi Queens4Freedom,
Maybe you've already done this piece - which would be great would it not?

But if not, know that many of us are experiencing it - at least according to messages sent to my website.

My meltdown was this weekend. Whooee - you didn't want to be around me that day!!!!!!!!
Blessings, Laughter, Sparkles and Love,

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 2:20 pm

Dear KT,
Thank you for blessing me with your message. I can't tell you how wonderful it makes me feel to know that I helped you just a bit.

Please stay with us. Your note tells me how much you feel and have to offer just by being you. Ignore what others are doing or spouting. This is an individual process of learning to love ourselves.

Please stay with us and help us with our way. You have it in you you know - you haven't tapped it yet, but you will.

Again, ignore others and just nurture yourself so you understand your worth to yourself and us.
Love Brenda

Peter fox 11th December 2013 2:53 pm

Hi Brenda! Wow, wow, wow! I wanted to reply to KT as well but you found the exact right words. What we must all realise is that in this most
extraordinary transition we are all in different places on our individual
journeys and it takes as long as it takes- it may seem like an eternity but
in relative terms (thanks Einstein!) it is a blink of an eyelid. And with the
sheer wonder of the "prize" on offer we just have to put up with the
discomfort we experience along the way and go for it. It does get better
and now I can feel the beginning of a new experience of "pure wonder" on
the horizon. You have identified a profound shift in the next few days and
Shanta Gabriel talks today of "nine magical days" to the winter solstice.
Words are totally inadequate to describe the profound wonderment of this
creation we are all "part and parcel" of.
Love to everyone and fasten your seat belts!

Mik 11th December 2013 2:57 pm

Thank you Brenda,,,
I also felt a huge downshift over the weekend,,like someone turned the lights out suddenly.
And my dreams friday and saturday night,,were just as depressing and heavy,,quite amazing,,
Things seemed to shift out later on saturday,,,
I find it interesting how the ego gets you to believe that these feelings and thoughts are eternal,,and nothing will change,and it will always be hopeless,,,
and then we shift out like almost nothing has happened and we continue on down the yellow brick road,,,
Thank you for your loving support to all..
In hope,,
Cowardly lion,,,,

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 3:02 pm

Hi Peter,
Thank you for thinking of KT. We really aren't alone in this.

I haven't read Shanta Gabriel's message yet today but plan to now. Thank you for your big heart.
Love Brenda

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 3:06 pm

Hi Mik,
You certainly aren't a cowardly lion. Any of us electing to be on this yellow brick road of changes, challenges and love cannot be labeled anything but courageous - including KT.

I can't remember if I told you all on this site, but my meltdown was this weekend also. Whoa. Life was not that exciting. And then as you so wonderfully pointed out, somehow we shift as if nothing happened. Kind of like little kids who can't have the toy they want and are crying so deeply UNTIL something more interesting comes along.
Love Brenda

COBALT 11th December 2013 3:12 pm

You all make me smile. Thanks for being here. :smitten:

Sandra Smyre 11th December 2013 4:12 pm

Blessings to you Brenda and everyone else. this message has blasted my heart open and the excitement feels delicious. To anyone out there in pain--please don't give up five minutes before the miracle. I was suicidal most of my life, but something has always shifted just at the last moment. Your message today was delivered at the right and perfect moment. Sending love and prayers to all SL followers, and especially you Brenda :smitten:

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 4:52 pm

Hi Colbalt,
Isn't this sharing and communicating amazing...and so loving.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 4:54 pm

Hi Sandra,
Thank you so much for not leaving us Sandra. We need you and your love.
Blessings, Love and New Joy,

kay 11th December 2013 6:37 pm

How do you do this, Brenda? You just play the right tone and we get it. Maybe we're all sort of vibrationally aligned? Could well be.

Brenda Hoffman 11th December 2013 7:20 pm

Hi Kay,
I've been thinking the same for some time. That groups of people - a community of like frequencies - find each other via blogs, workshops and so many other ways.

We of Spirit Library have formed a loving community throughout the globe haven't we? Remarkable.
Blessings, Sparkles and Love,

Peter fox 12th December 2013 5:14 am

I tell you what Brenda and Kay it FEELS to me that you are on to
something there. We've been told about "soul family" appearing for some
time now and we are the one's we have been waiting for etc etc. I don't
know about you guys but me and my biological family are definitely from
different planets!! Just as a matter of interest I have woken up this morning with much greater clarity and amongst many thoughts about the
"process" with the usual attached paradox which is- " I have been desiring the end of this process for so long that now I feel so much better
I now want it to continue for ever!". All the 12's today and I know you are
into numerology Kay- have a great day everyone!!

keryndawer 12th December 2013 5:47 am

Yes Brenda!!!...I feel we have :) Thank you to all at SpiritLibrary for helping me find my way after decades (like so many) of hopelessness and depression. SpiritLibrary is where I feel most at home. Here I feel REAL, like I belong in this life--that I am a part of this world-- and I am surrounded by my loving Soul Family. Thank you and Bless you all for this connectedness ***Sending Special Love and Light to you KT...xoxo***

KT 12th December 2013 6:45 am

Thank you Brenda and everyone here on Spirit Library for your wonderful,kind, sweet and loving support for me and my journey
I really...really... really...appreciate it!!

rachelsnyder 12th December 2013 8:03 am

I am loving how there's always a party going on over here at Brenda's Temple of The All. Thank you for being such a wise and gracious hostess, Divine Miss B.

Couldn't pull together a casserole(!), though in the spirit of the times, I would like to offer up a contribution to this gathering of Beloved Friends:

Blessings To Us All...

Sandra Smyre 12th December 2013 8:08 am

Brenda, I just wanted once again to say a very deep thank you. I hope you can see how meaningful your messages are to so many. My family has certainly fallen away, and having "soul family" is delicious. My number this coming year is a 6---family, so what a gift SL is to me. Much love to you, Sandra

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 10:02 am

Hi Peter,
I realized the same. A community can be created in thousands of formats including the Internet/Spirit Library.

But as I'm writing, I'm also sensing that because there are no longer rules or defined structures, communities of even more unique shapes, means and ways will be created. Creating a community via Spirit Library is just a precursor to the possibilities.

To all of us celebrating a year of shifts and new friendships - esp. today 12/12.
Blessings, Love and Sparkling Celebration!

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 10:04 am

Hi Kery,
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 10:06 am

Hi KT,
I was so hoping you would connect with us again. YAY for feeling the love your Spirit Library family sent your way. We REALLY do appreciate you!
Blessings, Love and Connections,

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 10:12 am

Hi Rachel,
You have to be from the upper Midwest US where casseroles reign and no celebration or gathering is complete without one.

But I just read your wonderful poem (you are so creative - thank you for sharing your creativity with the world)and it is much more filling in a loving way than any green bean casserole!!!! Thank you!

Blessings, Love and Spirit of a Loving Community to Us All!

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 10:14 am

Hi Sandra,
Many in my family of origin have either died or fallen away also.

Thank you for being part of our Spirit Library soul family...and accepting our gifts to you and all who wish to participate.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

rachelsnyder 12th December 2013 11:01 am

Nope, ranch country in the SW US, though we do a lot of potlucks here too. (: And thanks, Brenda, for the sugar.

Anyone feel called to help grow food and create community in a tiny, remote rural town where you can cut the quiet with a knife? Now you know who to contact...:thumbs:

Brenda Hoffman 12th December 2013 11:16 am

Hi Rachel,
I never knew the SW was into casseroles also! Not so common here in SE but I've introduced some of my favorites bit by bit. You might have added to your travel log that the weather in the SW is a great warmer than upper Midwest. Plenty of sunshine and wide open spaces!!!!
Blessings, Sparkles, Sugar and Love,

Deeni 12th December 2013 12:05 pm

Brenda, Thank You so much!

As godling put it "Wow, every single sentence resonates within my heart. I feel uplifted and empowered from your message".

One minute is bliss, and the next doubt riddled, confusion, and then the questions "Where did that outburst come from? I thought I was way past that . . .!"

I have been praying for relief.

Thank You Brenda.

Much Love and Light to All. : )

cyndy 12th December 2013 2:39 pm

Just to join the party and to be honest what struck me most was the last line,"For you will know deep within you that you have finally kissed the Prince, you, and your new role is beckoning – that of a new earth star. So be it. Amen."
My heart warmed and I started to smile and then an effervescent giggle from the heart. It felt like divine delight. It was the part about kissing the prince. Isn't it nice that sing is in kissing!?!


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An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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