You are becoming familiar with loving yourself. And you are starting to adjust to the new you. But you continue to fear change even though you know deep within you that change is constant throughout the Universes. An infant becomes a toddler, graduates from college and becomes a senior – all within the seeming blink of the 3D eye.
Yet, you hold the thought that change is frightening and so you try to stop or slow down change. Such is not possible as you have proved generation after 3D generation. But still you try.
Such effort is not only futile, but fear producing – especially during this transition. For this transition is constant change – at a much more rapid rate than has ever been on earth. The difference is this transition is not necessarily a visible physical shift so you have no markers to indicate that you or anyone else is a different person.
You treat toddlers different from young adults – and seniors different from high school students. And you do so based on appearance. This shift is so different you are not even certain how to view yourself. Thus we have sent many messages through many channels to help you better understand the new you as you move along your path.
Some of you wish to stop a bit and learn how to love yourself. That is fine and good. Love is key to new earth. But part of that self-love is accepting your shifts and those of others without many, if any, visible changes.
Perhaps you expect those of the light to have some sort of halo about them so that you can tag them as important to your transition. In searching for that halo, you have listened to that channel, meditated with that teacher and drifted from thought to thought – hoping this or that person is the one who would anoint you as of the light. Just as your parents once told you that you reached certain stages in your life by allowing you more freedoms and responsibility.
You look for parents or community members to tell you that you are growing, shifting, changing. When in truth, they know as little as you do about this shift. There is no guru or parent to give you the parameters of the new you – there is only you.
That last concept is a large piece of your fear of change. If no one tells you that you have reached a certain marker of light, how do you know that you have? The obvious answer is that you will tell yourself. But that is a frightening thought for what if you are ‘making up’ your transition, your growth? Now you have returned full cycle to your fear of change.
Never before have you had to determine for yourself that you have or have not moved beyond a certain marker.
This transition is about you, for you and by you. There is no one who knows you better than you know yourself. Allow that thought to be. And then allow yourself to transition at the pace right for you.
Even though you may have studied new earth materials for decades, you may wish to maintain your being in a certain place for reasons you do not always understand. Or perhaps not. Only you know. You are truly your own guru.
Do not let others tell you who you are or what stage you are in. You will know the stage you are in when you ask your inner-being. No one else knows. There are no markers you are comfortable with such as growing into larger clothing sizes, obtaining your first job or having a child. You decide the stage you are in and function accordingly.
Such is extremely difficult for those of you who fear change. More importantly, fear the thought that no one can tell you who or what you are. You must complete that dramatic piece yourself. Just as you must decide whether to meditate, remain fearful or doubt your growth. It is all you. A frightening piece indeed for those of you who pine for a 3D life of someone telling you that you have achieved a certain marker of change.
Who will inform you that you are doing a good job of transitioning? You. Who will tell you that you are moving at a wonderfully rapid pace given all that is happening to you and your surroundings? You.
You and only you are your marker. Allow that to be. Encourage that to be and you will transition at a phenomenal pace in whatever arena is right for you. So be it. Amen.
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