Get Over Yourself – Accept Joy

Dear Ones,

Many fear outcomes despite moving beyond the need to do so. You expect the same result true for this lifetime – before your transition – and many, if not all, previous lifetimes. It is as if someone has gifted you millions of dollars and you wonder when it will be taken away. Or you gamble with your winnings believing it does not matter, as all will be gone soon.

Then, there are those who will relish and enjoy the gifted millions – without embarrassment or apologies.

And so it is that you are at a belief crossroads. Do you truly believe in this transition? Or have you merely been voicing your belief in joy, but maintaining fears deep within you?

Perhaps you feel such is unfair for you have suffered for eons for the core belief embedded deep within you and just learned a few days ago what that core belief was – so you need more processing time.

In the 3D world you are most familiar with, you indeed would require and be allowed more time, But this is now, this is new earth. It is time to get ‘over yourself’ You have a beacon of light within you that you promised the Universes to shine. 

That last statement appears to be yet another care taking role and so it is. Only this time, you are care taking yourself. Quite different from past eons when you were at the end of the care taking line. Everyone – parents, children, spouses, friends, community, country – came first. Do you understand that few wars would have been possible if self interests were culturally acceptable?

Perhaps you are thinking we are advising you to be selfish. We are. For once in this life and many others, determine who you are and what you need. 

In the Old Age, lines were drawn. Take care of women, children, country, anyone deemed less powerful than you – and finally you.

Who determined what groups were less powerful or more needy?

Is it not true that only in the past 100 years or so in modern history, women were allowed to experience similar risks, jobs and activities as men? In past centuries were not seven-year-old children – both male and female – considered adults? Have not several female dominated cultures been discovered by archaeologists? Are there not countries who refuse participate in wars?

And yet, you continue believe that current culturally accepted and dominant behavior patterns are cast in stone.

When did those aforementioned cultural patterns change and why? What did those patterns represent that do not require representation in your current life? If changes occurred throughout earth history and were accepted and followed, why can you not believe that you can easily now live in joy?

You do not need to live in joy if you would rather not – but why not? The Universes – and you – are gifting you with love and abundance. It is time to accept and believe. Believing means knowing without a doubt that the pain of yesterday is no more. 

You can fight and argue to live your pain/Old Age beliefs, but joy is here. Maintaining your pain belief is no different from continuing to believe horses are the most important means of transportation even though automobiles, airplanes and trains are readily available.

Shift you thinking process from that of pain to pleasure. Not because you have to – but why would you not want to? 

Perhaps you feel you must accept pleasure. Such is the case for different reasons than you now perhaps imagine.

In past eons, you were forced to accept the beliefs best for society – at any cost to your person hood.

You are now accepting joy because of your person hood. Perhaps it will help you to think of this as a reading or math lesson you might not be particularly like, but something you must complete before progressing to more advanced studies.

For indeed, if you do not accept joy/pleasure/self-love; and the same is true for the next person and the next and the next – your life will remain in a fear mode. Earth and all other earth entities are shifting – whether or not you appreciate that. And it is time for human entities to fully accept their role in this amazing transition.

Even though you do not have to accept your new life of joy, you will be truly out-of-step with your world if you do not. And you will live in fear and pain far beyond the time you need to.

You have completed your fear lessons. You have cleansed – and exited your cocoon. Now allow yourself to accept and yes, enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Accept the Universal gifts being showered upon you. Accept joy, despite old indicators that you need to fear something.

Allow yourself to move beyond first grade. You no longer need to read those painfully boring Dick and Jane books. You can read whatever genre is of interest to you – as long as it is not frightening or painful. Those chapters of your life are long gone.

Accept and allow yourself to grow in the joy of your being. That is your Universal beacon of love and light – closely observed by those pondering whether to follow you.

Allow yourself to be in this new earth.

Accept that you are as powerful as you sometimes now imagine. Your new roles are in joyful drama and comedies. Your in-depth frightening and depressing dramas have successfully been completed. So be it. Amen



Anni 23rd July 2014 8:00 am

And so be it :)
Thank you for this!!! Thank you!

Tiff 23rd July 2014 12:11 pm

As usual, Right on time. Infinite thanks, Brenda. :angel:

michaelcharley 23rd July 2014 1:00 pm

"Accept that you are as powerful as you sometimes now imagine."

Just soaking in those beautiful words.... I have always loved my imagination, but it was always so "out there" that I always "knew" that it was just that: imagination, make-believe. As this message points out, however, it is time to move beyond that old knowing and open to a new knowing. The reality -- the beautiful *reality* -- is that it's time to change our definition of imagination. It's actually believe-make. If you imagine/believe, you make. Imagine and it really does show up. And funny thing -- once you "buy in" to the new definition and truly allow it -- it usually doesn't show up exactly as you imagined, but better. My oh my. Can you imagine? :thumbs:

Thank you for you being such a comforting, supportive Cocoon Keeper these many years, Brenda. I am so grateful for your willingness to listen and your bravery to share. Let's fly, sister! (And all of you.) And really, really, really start imagining what we want.... Holy Moly. Much love. :angel:

Brenda Hoffman 23rd July 2014 5:09 pm

Hi Anni,
Isn't odd to think we have to be encouraged to believe in joy?? Such interesting times. And so be it for sure.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 23rd July 2014 5:10 pm

Hi Tiff,
Right on for me too!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 23rd July 2014 5:17 pm

Hi Michael Charley,
I love your new phrase "believe-make" A perfect bumper sticker! And I so agree - "It's time to change our definition/beliefs about imagination. It's time to open our imagination envelopes and jump to new places and beliefs. Go creation teams.

I'm so pleased that my channels and personal transition pieces have been helpful. Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys!

Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Peter fox 24th July 2014 4:29 am

Hi Brenda! What a great contribution from MichaelCharley. Believe- Make
Brilliant! What is even more brilliant is that it is becoming increasingly
obvious to me that EVERYTHING is made up of parts so just as our own
bodies don't work properly without everything working together neither do
we as human beings- everyone's contribution adds to the whole because
we ARE one whole made of individual,unique parts. And so from the
firm foundation and "stepping stone" of JOY we move on in this great
adventure to the next piece in the cosmic jigsaw puzzle. Have a great week! Love Peter

jcunningham 24th July 2014 9:13 am your comment...we are one whole made of individual,unique parts..and so it is, and glad we're "getting"it.....

Brenda Hoffman 24th July 2014 10:05 am

Hi Peter,
Thank you! You're so correct even though I've never conceptualized it like that consciously. What a perfect image and concept.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 24th July 2014 10:06 am

Hi Janeway,
I so agree!!!!!!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

javajam66 24th July 2014 12:03 pm

Believe-make! I LOVE it!!! Thanks everyone, Brenda and contributors here make me feel like all the frustrations I so strive to keep at bay are just the last remnants of 3D fears.
Forging ahead!

Brenda Hoffman 24th July 2014 2:20 pm

Hi Jam,
Not to worry. I think most, if not all, of us get frustrated, angry, mad, etc. etc even now.

We're shifting the Universes, one joyful, radiant smile after another. At the same time, we're allowing ourselves to let go of the fear that has been central to us for eons. It's all good.

I find my mixed emotions interesting and yet another indicator that we're transitioning to a different being.

Just remember how angry/frustrated you are when someone changes your software, email access, i-phone settings,etc until you adjust and then have to admit to yourself that the new format is better than the old. And so it goes for us!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Yolanda 28th July 2014 2:06 am

Brenda, thanks so much, it's encoraging and uplifting !! and, I feel that it is so vibrating in my core and cells.


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An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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