No More Expected Patterns

Dear Ones,

Most likely, you recently requested transition assistance from your guides, angels and friends to seemingly no avail. For your being feels little different from before the March/April energy bursts.

Even though you may have experienced some blank spaces in time or noted that unimportant wishes happen with little or no effort, you continue to live your humdrum life with few peaks of joy and many valleys of listlessness or anger.

“Where is my joy?” is the refrain heard round the globe. So it is you are moving into new you. For indeed, new you is slowly – more slowly then you hoped for, but more rapidly than we imagined – rising from the debris of 3D you.

Perhaps it will help you better understand this phase, this void if you remember how you felt when you transferred to a new school or moved to a new community or job. At first you were hyper-vigilant wanting to fit in as quickly as possible. You had no friends of note – merely acquaintances with possibilities of future friendships. You did not quite understand your school, job or community. All was a blank and lonely slate as you tried to adjust and adapt.

So it is for you now. You are no longer of 3D. You left that community permanently. Yet, you do not feel comfortable in 4D and beyond. You are in a void of loneliness resulting in unexpected – sometimes even ongoing anger. “Where is my place? Where is my world?” is your ongoing cry to the Universes.

You are growing into new you. Would you expect to be totally immersed in a new community within days? So it is for you now. You will eventually find those who connect with new you. You will discover your complete role. But for now, you are making a major adjustment not anticipated by 3D you when you started this transition.

You negated your 3D world and need time to adjust to new you, new roles, a new earth.

Never before has any group completed such a wondrous task while of a 3D body. You have heard the same many times. But now you are beginning to truly understand. And you are indeed moving further and faster than anyone – including you – thought possible.

Of course, you wish to know exactly what your new role responsibilities are so you complete them appropriately. Yet, only you know what responsibilities you wish to claim. You are the CEO/president/leader/manager of you. You outline the responsibilities of yourself and your multiple segments. All is ready for you to do so. And so you will – in your time.

There is little reason to cry to the Universes, your angels or anyone about this void for you created it to adjust properly to new you. Your void might last a few days or weeks. It does not matter to the Universes nor to any entity but you.

Would you want a continuous stream of neighbors or friends in your new home or at the job demanding your attention before you had time to unpack and adjust physically? So it is for you now. You are giving yourself alone time to acclimate to new you.

For some, that means testing your new CEO skills within various segments, dimensions or frequencies. For others, gathering your thoughts and addressing some limiting fears. And for still others, total immersion in new you with all that entails including a joyful knowing that you are a wonderful CEO of you.

There is no need to force yourself – or others – into a place that is not yet right. Allow yourself to flow without comparisons to others or forcing your segments or any part of your being into place.

This is little different from puberty. No matter how much you wanted to have larger breasts or a deeper voice, you could not force yourself into that being. Puberty was a process that happened naturally without need for concern – even though many worried, but now find such thoughts silly or cute.

There is no need to feel superior if you have acclimated to your new you – for others will follow shortly when it is emotionally/physically safe for them to do so. And there is no need to worry if you feel no different from what was true last week or the week before. You will when it is right for you to do so.

New you cannot be forced into being. It will happen – you truly are no longer of 3D. You exited 3D with all the glory such an exit entails. Now you are adjusting, adapting, shifting into new you – at the time and pace correct for you. A time/pace that cannot be hurried or diverted.

You have claimed new you – now you merely have to flow into it. Much as is true after accepting a new job.

A new job, home or school requires physical, emotional and intellectual adjustments. You are now doing the same and more. Allow yourself to be. Allow yourself to flow.

Many of you think that as CEO you should you have more information instead of just flowing. You wish to have timelines and an overview – as you did in your 3D world. You knew you needed to complete task A before B could happen.

In your new world, A + B might equal C, F or Z. There is not a linear sequence you can depend upon. Such is one of the bigger adjustments you are making in this void. To know that the unexpected is the expected. To know that the expected is no longer part of new you.

You are going to or are already flying high with all sorts of new skills and adventures. None of which fit within the 3D mold you lived in for eons.

Karma – a linear perspective – is no more. And fear is greatly diminished or removed for you could not perform, as you will once you grow into new you, if fear were your dominant emotion.

Joy is you. Joy in the new and joy in you.

So it is, you are beginning to enjoy the unexpected without ties to that which you have known for earth eons. You are reverting to the flow of the Universes. Something you shut out for eons of earth lives. Such would not be possible if you retained your need for sequential and expected patterns.

Patterns are no more. So be it. Amen.


Xevo1717 26th May 2015 8:02 am

I've been getting so angry lately with the energies, so on and so forth. Being held in a void of struggling with working 1 part time job and living in my grandpas attic with fatigue ,no drive of any kind and no answers. ----I feel like the biggest loser -I feel like I'm in a reality that even the psychics can't see or understand. But this post makes the most sense to me and feels like the best thing/sign since all the energies started getting crazy back in 2010. -------Thank you Brenda your words come at the best time

Brenda Hoffman 26th May 2015 3:12 pm

Dear Xevo,
You're most definitely not alone. I've been in a irritable void for a couple of weeks now. And I'm getting messages from around the globe reporting something similar to our feelings. Please take care Xevo - you're not alone in either your feelings or support from those of us of Spirit Library. And we are "getting there" - just not as rapidly as we sometimes would like or envisioned when we initiated our transition.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


debs go lightly 26th May 2015 5:17 pm

Dear Brenda,

This is a difficult patch indeed, but guidance and my heart keep telling me all is ok, keep going, keep going.
We are the most beautiful beings of light who find ourselves in human form wondering how to make this 'work'.
Poor old logical mind doesn't know what to do, But give heart a chance to absorb this newness that we are,
and life will blossom out again. All is ok. All is love.

Love to you Xevo and all (like myself) who feel the fears, angers, confusions, pains. Give the heart a chance,
love will get us there, all is ok.


Brenda Hoffman 26th May 2015 6:25 pm

Dear Debs,
Your phrase," my guidance and heart keep telling me all is ok, keep going, keep going." is so accurate for me and this phase.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Lorelei63 26th May 2015 11:33 pm

Xevo - Thanks for sharing! I am in the same boat, and in this instance, misery does love company. Adding to my confusion is the fact that, having completed this lifetimes-long pattern, all the guidance I received in the past two and a half years is now apparently null and void, so I'm having to share with family -- "Oops - Uh, everything I said I had guidance about before is now different. Guess I have to give up that dream and imagined success and just go with the flow of this new situation. He he ... " I'm really counting on these purported new skills to get me through to something that supports my new life! I am so grateful to you, Brenda, for your amazing posts. You consistently describe so accurately and seamlessly the events, feelings, circumstances - it is so uncanny. Getting used to living and working from the heart does seem like it should be easier or feel better, but I keep getting reminded that we must use our imaginations to stretch us to becoming the next version of us, as well. So I am practicing every day, and I look forward to the magic when it arrives! xo

Peter fox 27th May 2015 4:20 am

Hi Everyone! Just to say(because Brenda is too modest and can't really!) Brenda's latest radio blog on her site Life Tapestry Creations is absolutely
spot on- that's where some of us are at,will be at or have already been(former for me). Thanks Brenda- Go Team!!!

kitegirlcoach 27th May 2015 5:54 am

I have found when I go through grumpy patch I imagine myself to be highly advanced and I see the little me moving around on this planet as a bit of a game. Like when you get so good at golf you play with a handicap. To our higher selves it's all the fun of the challenge. We chose to be here and play our role in carrying the species through to the new Epoch.

If you can picture your higher self as some huge being - if you've ever seen from this viewpoint in a dream or meditation it is easier - looking down on the little humans and look down on your little self. When you do, you can look on yourself with such love like a cute puppy stumbling and falling about. With that attitude you can start to laugh at the ridiculous circumstances the little you puts itself in. Then, with that lighter frame of mind and love for your self beaming out, you'll forgive yourself, give yourself rest and the solutions for little you will start to pop out of the woodwork.

Brenda Hoffman 27th May 2015 7:06 am

Hi Nikos,
I KNOW this is just a phase. A void of days or maybe a couple of weeks, but not forever. We just need to be. Just think how frightening this phase would be if we couldn't share our thoughts and feelings with one another! Thank you for you.
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

debs go lightly 27th May 2015 5:12 pm

Ditto Peter! Now I understand the crazy washing machine that has been going on inside me, WOW how cool is this. So ready, and so freaked out!

Thank you Brenda and your terrific radio blog, you rock!

Much love, Debs xx

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 9:54 am

Dear LoriLei, (I love your name)
I think most of us are sooooo ready for new us. But then, I remember waiting for my figure to develop when I was a teen-ager!!! I so wanted to look like Barbie - to no avail fortunately!!!!!! Too our imaginations!!!!!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 9:57 am

Oh, oh love your name LoreLei even though I misspelled it! On my iPad at friend's house on vacation and still learning how to use this keyboard!

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 10:01 am

Hi Peter,
Thank you. And most definitely, GO TEAM!!!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 10:02 am

Hey Nikos!!!!!!!!!!

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 10:07 am

Hey Debs!
Crazy washing machine sounds so right for so many. And I think of it as WE ROCK. Sharing my channels, thoughts and feelings with others is as beneficial for me as for all. We've created a loving, virtual New Earth community - again we rock!!!!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

Brenda Hoffman 28th May 2015 10:18 am

Annabelle Hi!!!
Cute puppies is such a perfect image for now. Reminds me of when I first learned how to use a computer in 1984 (i28 K Mac) when channeling A Glimpse of You Future I kept reaching for a spacer bar like on a typewriter!!! Such a puppy in the computer arena!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,

LJB_E 31st May 2015 2:33 pm

Thank you so much Brenda,These words Of yours taster better than any sweet could do.

Exactly how it is,just want to step out om the porch and make a primal scream,maybe i do.....
Is it the fear Of exploring or trust this new us that there is no fasit to,that makes me want shout out loadly ?
Or just walk away and never return, strange.
Reminds me Of a movie Paris Texas or something like that,stunned over what i dont really know or can't place ,
Guess exploring is the key word here,rest Of the world suddenly seems/feel artificial to me

LJB_E 31st May 2015 2:46 pm

:thumbs: Feeling just that too,i try to allow all this to be and pass,we are "newborn",and i experienced that selfaccseptanse is not what i personnally has much
Experience from,this not knowing that vant be placed with an experience feels awfull,but it is just a feeling.
I also feel soft and new in a strange way,undone acctually,new without knowing what that mens.

Brenda Hoffman 2nd June 2015 7:51 am

Dear LJB_E,
So many are experiencing a similar range of emotions - letting go of 3D earth you and birthing new you. Interesting emotional/physical/spiritual times indeed!
Blessings, Love and Sparkles,


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An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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