Stop Wishing – Create Now

Dear Ones,

Let us address your fears that your creations are of the future, that you are not skilled enough to create immediately – nor is such possible for anyone other than fairy tale heroes. You continue to believe your Old Age teachings:  All is work and you are not quite good enough.

Even if you had ten million dollars, your Old Age you would compare yourself to someone who has twenty million or the number of their toys and social connections. All was never enough in the Old Age. Nor was it easy to achieve. You accepted that others were better than you, that they created faster than you, that they had special skills you did not,

Of course, you were willing to limp along, as it were, wishing you had the skills of this or that person from Warren Buffet to Nelson Mandela. Wishing, wishing, wishing – but never quite achieving. Even the word “wishing” – like most of your creation words – has a future element.

It is time for instant creation. Some of you will attempt creation this very second. Such may not happen – which will allow you to continue your Old Age belief that instant creation is not possible.

You have refused to believe that creation is instantaneous for eons. You suffered through famines, pestilence, natural disasters, imprisonment and personal heart breaks knowing sometime in the future your life MAY improve or you trials end with your earth death. You never expected immediate relief from your pain, much less that your greatest dreams would materialize instantly. Work was required. As were various gurus from the right employer to the person who provided you with the right meditation.

Creation was of the future and almost always with the help of someone wiser and better than you. You accepted a life of servitude – even with your creations. It is not that work is a terrible word, merely that you devoted so much time to physical 3D work issues – jobs, finances, marriages and child-rearing – that you had little time for spiritual thoughts or creations.

Is not guessing/anticipating the needs of others how you direct most of your relationship energies? Do you not create a job description of sorts for every relationship? A friend requires this, a wife that, etc. Perhaps those predetermined societal requirements were correct – but then, perhaps not. If they were, the results would always be joy and love. Such has not proven to be the case as can be noted by abuse, murder and on and on.

Your life job descriptions created by your society – and they were indeed created by your society – were not designed for love, but control. It is time to interact with others via your new communication skills.

Many mothers intuitively know the difference between an infant’s physical needs and the infant’s need for cuddling. What if you allowed yourself to continue that melding of thoughts throughout a child’s life? What if during a job interview you allowed yourself to know this company is not right for you – and you created a better opportunity? What if on your first date, you allowed yourself to sense this woman was your perfect mate and why?

These are not fairy tales or future possibilities. When did you think you would  apply your new earth applications (apps)? Perhaps practicing for a few eons until you deemed you were an expert in a particular field? That thought is so Old Age!

You have new skills. Use them. Practice with them. Play with them. But do not deny that you have them or continue to play the wishing game as if you are not skilled enough to create what you want NOW – not tomorrow, next year or in a few years.

Maybe you know what you want now, but your attempts do not produce whatever it is. You feel like a slow learner. Do not fret. The first step of creation is believing you can create. Most of you – and please check within to verify this thought – believe others can create, but you cannot. And so you cannot. It is as simple – and for most of you – as complicated as that.

What do you need to know to believe in your skills – skills you have always had, but have not allowed yourself to know about in your 3D world? It is time to awaken. To test your new abilities and shift your creation belief patterns.

If you wish, ask your inner-being, DNA and cellular structures for assistance. But do not request creation help from others. Even though we are one, each entity has unique DNA patterns that do not necessarily communicate in the same fashion. So requesting help from others, probably means you will continue to spin your creation wheels.

That last thought does not mean you must not speak to others about your concerns – physical, emotional or spiritual – but that this creation piece must be approached in a direct fashion, instead of through an intermediary. Which is no different from reading counseling philosophies so you can counsel just like a particular author. Counseling techniques that probably work well for the author, but you are not the author, you are you. Creation is the same.

You cannot create like your neighbor, nor would you wish to. It is a personal skill that evolves as you evolve. Maybe you merely need to think of what you need and it appears. Or to meditate. Or to establish a dedicated thought. Or whatever comes to your mind/senses when you are ready to use your creation skills – when you finally remove the layers of fear that have stopped or dramatically slowed your creation skills.

Allow yourself to listen to yourself. You are your creation guru. You do not create like anyone. Nor does anyone truly understand why you are creating whatever it is you are creating.

Whenever you place any filters on your creation skills, you move from now to sometime in the future – or never. And so it is. Amen.


queens4freedom 25th September 2013 8:53 am

:angel: RIGHT ON! thank you for these enCOURAGING words, from the bottom of my hippie heart!!! PEACE, LOVE, & JOY!!!

Brenda Hoffman 25th September 2013 10:08 am

Hi Queens4Freedom,
FlowerPower or what!!!!!!!!!!!!! We're back!!! Look out world here we come - again!
Peace, Love, Joy.....and Harmony Back at Ya,

Peter fox 25th September 2013 3:14 pm

Brilliant advice, Brenda. For some time now I have been wondering what
the "mechanism" would be for creating. This makes compete sense- it's
up to us to find out what works for us. Have I understood this correctly?
Thanks,as ever, for your tireless commitment to us all here on SL.

Brenda Hoffman 25th September 2013 3:22 pm

Hi Peter,

Today I had another insight. One of the reasons we don't need to tell anyone or ask for advise is that not everyone will support, share, enhance our dream. They might just do the opposite and sense or think that our dreams are unrealistic (not possible or we wouldn't have the dream)or silly (it's our dream!).

Blessings, Hugs and Sparkles,

Peter fox 25th September 2013 3:43 pm

Yes - I've had a very similar thought recently. There really is no way of
faking this is there. Isn't that genius? What else should we have expected!!

Brenda Hoffman 25th September 2013 6:33 pm

Hi Peter,
So you think this is as great as I do!!!

No there's no way of "saying the right thing to the right people," pretending we care or that we can do something. We finally just are - and who we are is perfect. Finally - after eons of pretending, of fearing - we're beginning to accept that who we are is all we need to be - and we're glorious, powerful beings! YAY!
Blessings and Love,

Tiff 25th September 2013 9:16 pm

Infinite thanks for the continued encouragement, Brenda.

I feel that this is the greatest challenged for me.

Brenda Hoffman 25th September 2013 9:41 pm

Hi Tiff,
Daring to be the powerful beings that we are is not easy. We've hidden ourselves so well for so long. Play with creating - like we did when we were children.
Blessings, Hugs and Love,

nachcam 27th September 2013 3:16 am

Dear Brenda,

I loved your article. However, I've been trying to create a love relationship for 8 years, and I'm still single! LOL. I've done everything: ask for it, stop asking, write it down, etc. I've actually FELT as if I'm already part of a relationship. I've felt whole and happy many times, and during those times I KNOW the realtionship is there, waiting for me. I KNOW the person is there, but then the person is not there! The physical experience simply doesn't happen!

I'm really lost here, since I've heard from many psychics that the relationship will manifest soon (I've heard this since 2007!!!!).

Please help me here.

Hugs and love,


Brenda Hoffman 27th September 2013 10:03 am

Dear Rafa,
I so know what you mean. We just sold a condo that we thought would never sell - and then wonders of wonders we had two offers on the same day - no nibbles before. I don't/didn't understand the delay either.

All I can offer is for you to ask yourself what the hold-up is.

Maybe your significant other isn't yet available or maybe there's something else. After meeting my husband (and doing much of what you've been doing nearly 15 years ago), I discovered he hadn't been available when I first started my search. But that's me.

I wish I had a magic wand for you and every one who has creation desires, but unfortunately this new earth creation is internal.

I know I didn't provide you with an answer but know that it will happen - just not yesterday.
Blessings, Hugs and Love,

nachcam 27th September 2013 5:25 pm

Thank you so much for taking your time to answer!! Few people do that.

I will try to keep creating inside, and things will eventually manifest, let's hope soon.

Best of best!


Brenda Hoffman 27th September 2013 6:08 pm

Dear Rafa,
I so hope they do manifest soon. It's so easy to think it's not possible when it doesn't seem to happen in the time frame our conscious being thinks is correct.
Blessings, Hugs and Love,

Rainbow Princess 29th September 2013 4:57 pm

Dear Brenda
Thank you so much - like so many others here, I really needed to get this message!

Love & Blessings to all :smitten:

kitegirlcoach 29th September 2013 10:37 pm

A great article for me to read right now. I am a coach and watching amazing things fall into place for my clients at lightning speed.

These things are not of my making. I facilitate the client getting clear on what they want, then we both sit back and watch it appear.

I've been dreaming up such big visions for myself and yearning for someone to do for me what I do for my clients but, like you say, why wait for someone to be my support? Perhaps if I can find a way to have a little faith that it can fall into place for me too, I will allow it in. Thanks, Brenda.

Brenda Hoffman 30th September 2013 10:50 am

Hi Rainbow Princess,
I'm so pleased this channel was right for you. Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys!
Blessings, Hugs and Love,

Brenda Hoffman 30th September 2013 10:58 am

Hi KiteGirlCoach,
I just finished this week's channel (I'll post tomorrow. It outlines how we all have a strength (physical, emotional and spiritual) in this lifetime but most likely, are afraid of at least one of the three areas - the bogeyman under our bed - because of previous life experiences. Hoping it answers some of your questions and helps you create BIG!!!!

Our creation skills are coming to the forefront - for all who want to - including you and me!

Blessings, Hugs and Love,


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Brenda Hoffman

An intuitive since birth, Brenda formalized her channeling skills with her internationally noted book, A Glimpse of Your Future. This prophetic classic describes your role in this transition, as well as answers questions such as why baby boomers were instrumental in introducing the New Age and what earth will be like in the year 4000.

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