Victimhood has been and continues to be a large part of your life. “He did this to me.” “I can’t be happy until this happens in my life.” “I lost my job and so my life is done.” All of which are no longer true. You have heard the phrase, “You create your own reality.” You have paid ‘lip service’ to that phrase in conversations. But you have yet to internalize that extremely important Universal truth. And until you do internalize that truth, your reality will continue to be filled with dreams, thoughts and fears of victimhood.
How can you create a life of joy if you continue to ‘know’ within your being that someone, somewhere is out to get you? Does that sound a bit like the boogeymen of your childhood? And so it is. There is no boogeyman behind the door today, anymore than there was a boogeyman in your childhood closet.
Those people and things that make you feel like a victim are no more real than the boogeymen of your childhood. Your response is that we, unlike you, are not terrified that you will not be able to pay your food bills once your unemployment insurance runs out or any number of similar situations that indicate that life acts upon you – “Why were you the one laid off?” (victim) “Why isn’t the government taking care of me?” (victim) “Why are the banks driving me to foreclosure?” (victim)
Ah, you say, in your best victimhood voice, “Easy for us to say, we are not living your life.” And rightly so, for you are the creator of your life and you live the life you create.
The next time you feel the need to blame someone for your situation, please remember that with the recent energy shifts not only are you able to create a life of joy, you are able to do so much more easily than ever before. Now is the time to play with that thought and that energy. You truly are the star of your life and all of those ‘terrible’ people who do or have done terrible things to you are merely bit players. That woman who is mean to you – shift her role or eradicate her from you life – not in terms of physical harm – but in a fashion that no longer impacts you – maybe she will decide to move or to play the mean being in someone’s life who wishes to continue with their victim role. You create your life. But then, so does everyone else. It is not your responsibility to determine what she does with her life once she leaves or reduces her activities in yours – anything more and you jump into the caretaker role – yet another Old Age role which we will discuss at a later date.
You are creators. You are not victims. There is no boogeyman. There is just you with all of your new and improved creative skills. So start creating, including creating a life that does not include your current victimhood roles.
We might add before we close that victimhood, care taking and the resulting fear have been important elements in your lives for eons – you needed to explore how to interact with others in pain. You have completed those lessons. It is time to move on – just as was true when you wished to remain in high school forever even though your senior year had ended and it was time for new lessons and an expansion of your being as a result of those high school lessons.
So be it. Amen
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