When We Feel “Stuck”

What wisdom can you offer to us to assist us, when we feel “stuck” in all areas of our lives, and unable to move forward?

Blessed Ones, The challenges are coming to you so quickly, it is most understandable that many of you are discouraged, and many of you are feeling unable to move forward. We ask you to “stop and smell the roses”, stop and bring yourself back into your Sacred Heart. Cease what you are doing that is distressing you and simply take time to allow forgiveness. Allow forgiveness for yourselves. We cannot stress this enough. When you are so hard on yourselves, and unwilling to forgive yourselves, you only perpetuate more of what is causing you to feel “stuck” in the first place. Forgiving yourselves will release so much of the distorted vibrations that are causing you to be unable to move forward. As you forgive yourselves, you are able to return once again to the vibration of love. Self love, Dear Ones.

We cannot tell you enough, that you must keep returning to self love and you will find that all solutions will be found to what it is that is keeping you from moving forward. The vibration of judgment and lack of forgiveness for yourselves, are vibrations which hold you in your ego body. You raise your vibrations as you return to the vibration of love of self. The vibration of love is the vibration which will most greatly assist you in finding solutions. You have been told often, that the solution is always found at a higher vibration than the problem which you are seeking to solve. This is great wisdom for you to remember and will assist you in once again moving forward Apply this to all areas of your lives, Dear Ones, and your path will once again be cleared and lightened and your way will be clear to move forward once again.

As we ask you to “stop and smell the roses”, you will find you will be able to do so, when you have returned to the vibration of love. Seek joy, Dear Ones, seek joy and love and remember that this lifetime will be completed in a short moment of eternity. Do you want to live this life in pain and suffering or do you want to live it in love and joy? It is a choice that each of you must make and we give you this information to guide you in accessing love and joy.

Take the time to be in nature, as the grounding influence of your mother earth and the nature spirits will assist you in returning to the love within your Sacred Heart. Lie down upon your mother earth and feel yourselves sink within her loving embrace as she allows you to let go of all that does not serve you, and she absorbs it within her loving embrace. Feel yourselves sink down into her soil and release all that has brought forth your feelings of being “stuck”. Release it, and lay in the embrace of mother earth and become aware of the nature devas and spirits all around you, loving you, assisting you, embracing you, if you will let them. Quiet moments in nature will do much to refresh you in your daily lives.

Take this time, Dear Ones, take a salt bath, light a candle, take a long walk, do what pleases you, when you find yourselves unable to move forward. For those of you who feel you do not have the time to do this, we ask you, how much time are you wasting being in your lack of forward movement? We assure you, you do have the time. You will renew and refresh yourselves, and rejuvenate yourselves. And finally, take particular time to meditate within the love of your Sacred Heart. Feel this love, be this love. You complete the circle as you had moved away from the love of your Sacred Heart, and now you will be able to move back into the love of your Sacred Heart.

How can you assist us to clear repetitive behavior patterns which we see in ourselves, but have been unable to change or transmute?

Dear Ones, this messenger has an analogy which was given to her, to assist her in recognizing behavior patterns which did not serve her. It is an analogy which also allowed her to see the humor in these situations. When you find yourselves repeating a behavior pattern which does not serve you, see the visualization of a juke box, and you may assign a number to the particular behavior. When you find yourself bringing forth the behavior which does not serve you, see the juke box in your mind, see the button associated with this behavior being pushed, and you may see the juke box jumping up and down and side to side as its “buttons” are pushed. We hope this bit of humor will assist you in seeing behaviors you would like to change, as they come forth in your life. And the humor may assist you in the moment, to lighten up and shift the behavior.

Dear Ones, you take yourselves so seriously. If you could see yourselves as we see you, you would not be so serious. You are divine, glorious, beings of light, of a magnificence that you are unable to see, or comprehend. We ask you to know that it is so, and you have all the gifts, talents and abilities to transcend all that does not serve you.

What other wisdom would you like to offer regarding clearing repetitive behavior patterns?

We ask you to intensify your use of the Violet Flame. Identifying the patterns that you choose to release is such a great stride toward moving forward. When you are honest with yourselves and do the self inquiry work needed to help you move forward, you are living in the truth and integrity which will assist you toward forward movement. Self inquiry is of great importance in moving forth. Identify the behavior patterns which are keeping your from a higher truth. Call on the Violet Flame, call on St Germaine, Lady Portia, Archangel Zadkiel, Lady Amethyst, and call on all the angels of the Violet Flame, who are here to assist you in working with the Violet Flame. Call forth your I Am Presence, to active the Violet Flame.

The Violet Flame will come forth from the higher realms, and it will come forth to you from within the earth. The Violet Flame will then blaze forth through your Sacred Heart. It is as if you are surrounded in a whirlwind of this cool and transforming flame. You will not be given more than you are able to use, and when you intensify your use of the Violet Flame, you will be given more. Daily, use the Violet Flame. Each time you find yourselves in one of the repetitive behavior patterns you would like to change, transmute it with the Violet Flame. Throughout the day, breathe the Violet Flame, send it down into the earth as a gift, and bring it back up and out through your Sacred Heart center, front and back, in the form of the infinity sign, as you exhale. Breathe it out to the earth, humanity and all life forms.

Fill yourselves with the Violet Flame and intend that you carry the Violet Flame in your field at all times, and as you breathe in and out, that you send it out to earth and al life forms. You will be given more as you use the Violet Flame to transform yourselves and assist all others around you.

There is an ebb and flow, as you integrate that which you have learned and that which is being presented to you, to learn. Allow yourselves, to move within the ebb and flow. Your ebb and flow is also affected by the planetary bodies and astrological events. As you become aware of this, it will assist you, as you understand that there are greater forces at work in the Divine plan, and the Divine blueprint has many intricate workings which affect each and every one of you. Know that you cannot always be aware of the nuances of that which is occurring in the ascension process. Return to the love within your hearts, always, Dear Ones, and you will be able to flow in the divine timing, and the ebb and flow of the universe.

We are the Ascended Masters. We are here with you, to assist you. Ask us to radiate love to you, ask us to be with you, and assist you in bringing balance and harmony into your lives.


angelk 25th September 2010 8:12 am

Thank you. I felt such peace from reading this message today.

Marilyn Harding 25th September 2010 11:44 am

Wow - synchronicity in action! Many thanks for sharing this timely message. Just reading it - I could feel the gentle release from my own self judgement.

lgm214 25th September 2010 6:54 pm

Thank you for these beautiful words of wisdom. Being stuck in isolation is a pattern that has risen to the forefront of my life. This isolation has persisted for approx 14 yrs. It seemed to intensify immensely during an illness which started 3 yrs ago. Since the intensification, I have noticed increased discomfort (emotional, psychological, physical and spiritual) with being isolated as my physical and emotional needs seemed greater due to illness. And I was unable to find a way to meet those needs.

This has gone on for so long that I became alarmed. I in turn developed resistance and started searching and trying to change it. Needless to say, nothing has changed.

So, thank you for addressing this issue and helping me to see how to return to a more loving, peaceful, forgiving attitude. Love always.

spring 26th September 2010 4:37 am

:smitten: wonderful..thank you so much for these loving words x love to all fellow travellers :smitten:


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Michelle Coutant

Medical Intuitive and Quantum Practitioner, Michelle is a vibrational healer, practices healing touch, and also works within the human matrix.  She is a messenger for Archangel Michael, Jeshua and also receives wisdom through the Akashic Records, and is a disciple of the Kriya Yoga spiritual lineage.


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